List of Personality Defects and Desirable Qualities

In any of the living being there is a fine blend of Raja, Tama and Satwaa gunas. The ultimate objective is to ensure a greater per centage of Satwaa and diminishing trends of the former two. As a gentle exercise towards the same we would need to ensure an introspection on what are the various personality defects that we nurture and what are the desirable qualities that we would need to work building towards.

1. Worrying and brooding on something too much
2. Succumbing easily to irritability
3. Untolerable bouts of anxiety
4. A trend of discouraging others
5. An attitude of criticizing others
6. Brandishing rude behavior and/or consequent demonstrated misdemeanour
7. No tolerance
8. Short Temper
9. Quarrelsome
10. Dominance
11. Aggressive
12. Revengeful
13. Violent
14. Destructive
15. Merciless
16. Cruel
17. Lack of focus and/or concenteration
18. Amnesia and/or Forgetfulness
19. Indecisive
20. A poor sense of judgement
21. Impatience
22. Impusive
23. Lazy and Lethargic
24. Untidiness
25. Irregular and Not Systematic without any planning
26. Inefficient
27. Lack of Punctuality
28. Lacking in Perseverance
29. Lack of Initiative
30. Too much of sarcastic humor
31. An excessive indifference
32. Ill-mannered
33. Emotional
34. Sans sentiment
35. Sans Analytical
36. Vague and Pointless talks
37. Excessive and Heightened Pessimism
38. Moody
39. Depressed
40. Eccentric
41. Blaming others for no reason
42. Blaming self for no reason
43. Envious
44. Biased
45. Jealous
46. Suspicious
47. Secretive
48. Apprehensive
49. Attention-seeking (crazy about craving for fame and popularity)
50. Too much conservative
51. Narrow-minded
52. Adamant and Stubborn
53. Self-Centered
54. Selfish and Possesive
55. Miserly
56. Lack of Self Confidence
57. Submissive
58. Shy
59. Timid
60. Inhibited
61. Inferiority Complex
62. Unsympathetic
63. Lack of Caution
64. Interfering
65. Undutiful
66. Disobedient
67. Unreliable
68. Unreasonable
69. Inhospitable
70. Ungrateful
71. Corrupt
72. Disloyal
73. Immoral
74. Day-dreaming
75. Overspending (SpendThrift)
76. Braggart
77. Apathetic towards others
78. Fond of frequent changes (aka) Wavering mind
79. Over-ambitious
80. Very perfectionist

The corresponding qualities that are desirable are:

1. Calm
2. Carefree and trust in Lord
3. Appreciating others
4. Tolerant
5. Polite
6. Calm
7. Even Tempered
8. Peace-loving
9. Not-dominant
10. Non-Aggressive
11. Forgiving
12. Constructive
13. Merciful
14. Kind
15. Able to focus/concenterate
16. Patient
17. Controlled
18. Hardworking
19. Tidy
20. Systematic and Planned Execution of Works
21. A good sense of judgement
22. Punctual
23. Having initiative
24. Perseverance
25. Efficient
26. Ambitious
27. Happy-go-lucky
28. Warm-hearted
29. Social
30. Well-mannered
31. Analytical
32. Not sentimental
33. Talk Precise
34. Optimistic
35. Not moody
36. Not eccentric
37. Cheerful
38. Unbiased
39. Realistic
40. Not envious
41. Not jealous
42. Not suspicious
43. Open
44. Non-apprehensive
45. Not seeking attention
46. Liberal
47. Broad-minded
48. Compromising
49. Not self-centered
50. Selfless
51. Sharing
52. Generous
53. Self confident
54. Psychologically independent
55. Assertive
56. Leader
57. Socially bold
58. Courageous
59. Uninhibited
60. Being balanced
61. Sympathetic
62. Helpful
63. Charitable
64. Hospitable
65. Cautious
66. Responsible
67. Dutiful
68. Sincere
69. Obedient
70. Reliable
71. Reasonable
72. Grateful
73. Repentant
74. Truthful
75. Impartial
76. Honest
77. Uncorrupt
78. Loyal
79. Moralistic
80. Having a good memory
81. Practical
82. Careful with money
83. Humble
84. Not boastful
85. Respect others
86. Stable
87. Ambitious
88. Perfectionist

[Courtesy: SSRF Inc]